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HAPPY THANKSGIVING! November 26, 2009

Filed under: Life — neverabandoned @ 4:58 am

On this Thanksgiving, I want to remember what I’m thankful for. The usual and unusual.

 

I am thankful:

 

for my wonderfully loving family.

for 800 carwashes around Bowling Green that I never use.

for fresh-grown fruits and veggies so I can try to be healthy.

that I live only a few miles from the KY State Police and the fire department, just in case something ever happened at my house.

that I have a group of friends who challenge and teach me.

for pink lemonade.

that handicap parking spaces remind me I have a lot of living still to do.

for the use of a cell phone.

for beautiful fall weather and the changing colors of fall leaves.

for chrome rims that remind me to live within my means.

for the great impact my Pops had on me while he was still living.

for people at work who are able to laugh with me about another unsaid person at work.

that I can keep myself sane by writing notes.

for my heritage; a little German sprinkled in with Cherokee Indian.

that Emilee Duvall puts up with me.

for boys who play guitar.

that my hiccups bring laughter.

that doggies bring joy to my life.

that Bryce Blaine makes me feel like a kid again.

that my truck manages to get me from point A to point B, even after the 8 years of hell I’ve put him through.

for a healthy family.

for bangle jewelry that makes cool noises when I move them.

about Cameron Yates being my personal stylist.

that White-Out can fix my written mistakes.

that Jesus Christ forgives my every mistake.

for John Mayer.

for Cinnamon Apple Spice from Starbucks.

for Jessie Rae, my trainer and nutritionist.

that toilet paper and shaving cream bring back wonderful memories from high school.

for my comfy bed.

that crossword puzzles keep me sane at work.

for the one day of the month that I don’t have to wear heels – Blue Jean Fridays.

for hugs.

that bussling Christmas shoppers cause me to avoid the mall.

for Jason and Jenifer Lewis – who inspire me everyday.

for Cash Baker – who reminds me to love more deeply in every moment.

for Oreo and M&M McFlurry’s.

that I don’t get sick on roller coasters.

for goats.

that the Lord made me talkative.

that Toyota Sequioas make me dream of something better.

for parents who love and support me.

for a new iPod adapter that lets me listen to something other that the radio for the first time in 8 years.

for beautiful scenery on the drive to Knoxville.

for Griff’s Gobbler and caesar salad combo.

for nature; beautiful trails to hike, waters to play in, flowers to pick and trees to hug.

that Dad’s love for John Deere makes Christmas shopping easier.

that God gives us time to heal and mature.

for doctors who heal Jessie’s broken finger.

that most facebook statuses make me laugh.

for swings at parks.

for my precious puppy who cuddles with me.

that past relationships can be serious tools for learning.

that Daddy knows people who get me out of having to pay tickets.

for fun-colored paperclips that make paperwork a little less boring.

for purses with pretty patterns.

that I am no longer addicted to Sprite or Grey’s Anatomy.

that I have Daddy’s brown eyes and Momma’s creative mind.

that I can serve as Shannon’s dictionary every day.

for bright colors that make me smile.

that I still have friends from middle school that I still consider to be very close friends.

for birthdays – they’re fun.

that I like to bake – it makes for good dessert treats.

that UT has dominated UK football since 1985.

that I get to go to Atlanta for Passion Twenty-Ten in January.

that Daddy comes upstairs to kill bugs when they sneak up on me.

for music.

for surprises.

that cows give milk - I like milk.

that the Mt. LeConte Hikers and Liars Club supports my parents’ funny antics.

 

REMEMBER TO COUNT YOUR BLESSINGS - ALL OF THEM. NOT JUST THE USUAL FRIENDS, FAMILY, FOOD, SHELTER MUMBO-JUMBO. BE MINDFUL THIS THANKSGIVING OF THE MANY, MANY, INNUMERABLE BLESSINGS WE ALL HAVE IN THIS LIFE.

 

The Blessing of Family. :) November 21, 2009

Filed under: Family,Photos of Life — neverabandoned @ 10:07 pm

My beautiful neice, Kendall. She’s so cuddly and loveable!

Well, there she is again. Playing in her kiddie pool.

Dad at the UT – Memphis football game. His first time in Neyland Stadium. He was absolutely blown away.

Mom and Dad. Oh, and Cooper giving bunny ears to his Gran.

Cooper and Uncle Brett ballin’.

 

“The Bad News; The Good News”

Filed under: Life — neverabandoned @ 2:46 pm

Ever thought about this? Or been guilty of this?

 

Rebecca is far too busy worrying about things Rebecca “needs” to do to do what Rebecca needs to do.

 

In our culture, time is of the essence – don’t waste a moment of it. Consume. Do. Buy. Get. Life is all about me, me, me.

 

The bad news is time flies; the good news is you’re the pilot.” – Michael Althsuler

 

What Rebecca does with her time matters. It makes a difference.

 

“It’s not enough to be busy, so are the ants. The question is, what are we busy about?” – Henry David Thoreau

 

  • Instead of, cart in hand, speeding down the aisle at Wal-Mart, help the elderly woman next to you who can’t seem to reach the item off the top shelf. Rebecca, are you too proud to take a spare moment to lend a helping hand?
  • 5:00 rush hour traffic, bumper to bumper along Campbell Lane – How about avoiding the innate desire to stubbornly eliminate any space for another car between you and the one in front? What are you in such a hurry for, Becca? Let a few cars out in front of you with a wave and a smile.
  • Dinner with a familiar face is wonderful. How about mixing in time with someone you barely know. Create a friendship – a stepping stone to discipleship.
  • Instead of a mid-afternoon nap, get off your lazy behind and help your neighbor rake the leaves or take a lap around your block, picking up trash as you go.
  • Or instead of spending Rebecca’s paycheck on unnecessary purchases, stock up for the food pantry at a local church or spare some change to pay the toll for the person on the road behind you. Try buying the drink for the person behind you in the Starbucks drive-thru.

 

Are you overwhelmed or overtaken by the demands of school? Be comforted by the promise that the things of this world are of miniscule concern in comparison to the glory of God and the things to come. Romans 8:18 says “For I consider that our present sufferings are not worth comparing with the glory that is to be revealed to us.” In this fleeting world, be reminded as Paul writes in 1 Corinthians 7:31, “For the present form of this world is passing away.” Be careful not to spend time on wasteful and unimportant commitments, for they mean nothing when the present life is over.

 

As Donald Miller says in Blue Like Jazz, “I believe that the greatest trick of the devil is not to get us into some sort of evil but rather have us wasting time.” I forget that everyday is one day closer to meeting our Maker. At the end of my time on earth, I will be held accountable for each moment. Remember that wherever you are in life, whatever position you are in, you were placed there by God. What you do with it is up to you, Rebecca. My seemingly monstrous cares of the world are meaningless to the God who brings salvation. This life on earth should be lived in such a way that, in Rebecca’s thoughts and actions, the person of Jesus Christ is incarnate through my very footprints and the movement of my lips.

 

Be on guard. Make every effort to continuously present the Gospel through your thoughts and actions. Galatians 5:1 says, “For freedom Christ has set us free; stand firm therefore, and do not submit against a yoke of slavery.” Rebecca, be weary of how easily you can be entangled into slavery masked by a false sense of contentment and satisfaction. Is it the comfort of money, possessions or a relationship, the daily stress of a career or an education, the busy-ness of a scarcely-free schedule and back-to-back obligations? Or can you say without hesitation that you are enslaved to the one true and never-failing God who freed you through the cross and resurrection? Rebecca, can you say that you LOVE Him that much? That the LOVE you have for Him is reflected in a real and pure way to all people: friends, enemies, strangers, acquaintances, loved ones or other?

 

So, again – Rebecca is far too busy worrying about things Rebecca “needs” to do to do what Rebecca needs to do.

 

Then what is it that I really need to do? LOVE God. And LOVE people more than myself. Only with a true understanding and witness of love is the perfect image of Christ exemplified.

 

As Luke 19:10 says, “The Son of Man came to seek and to save the lost.” Be the light and LOVE of Jesus to a lost and lonely world. Above all, see that the body of Christ is built up, that love is shown to all and that the Gospel in revealed and magnified in your life.

 

 

Disclaimer - This is just as much, if not more, for myself and TO MYSELF than for anyone who might be reading. Hence, the use of “Rebecca” throughout.

 

Love and Service November 11, 2009

Filed under: Life,LOVE — neverabandoned @ 3:28 pm

it’s veteran’s day.

 

first, thank a veteran. pray for those who serve. remember those we’ve lost and those who will give their lives for your freedom and mine. today, be aware of the many blessings we have in America and those who have protected them.

AND TO OUR VETERANS, MAY YOU FEEL THE LOVE OF JESUS AND BE OVERWHELMED IN HIS BLESSINGS.

Let me share some things about a few wonderful men in my life who lay down their life everyday to protect the American people. I have a friend named Ron Fabbo, who is a veteran. He’s great. I forget that he served because I met him after his active duty. But today is a wonderful remembrance of all who serve, have served and will serve. Fabbo thank you for your heart for service, your love for the Savior Jesus Christ and your passion for others. All those things are evidence of the many reasons you would want to serve the USA.

My best friend from high school is married to a wonderful man on active duty in the Air Force. Together, they just moved back to the United States from Germany with a beautiful 1-year-old package; Bryce. Tyler Blaine, an AGE Airman, has been a wonderful example of sacrifice to me. He packed up his life and his wife, left his family in Bowling Green, KY, and spent three and a half years in Germany. I am astounded everyday when I think about how wonderful Alex and Tyler are and I am so thankful that there are men and women willing to lay their life on the line for my freedoms. This also reminds me to be thankful for the husbands and wives of those who serve. Alex is a strong, wonderful daughter of Christ, providing a great example to me of a supportive and loving wife as she called to be. Thank you Tyler and Alex for, together, loving your country above yourself. It is an unexplainable example of selflessness and love.

I just had lunch with this man’s fiance last week and, through conversation, was able to learn so much about the man himself, Chaplain Captian Shane Blankenship of the United States Army. What love she has for this man. This man who loves the Lord, loves serving through ministry and loves children. Shane is the Pastor at Hillvue Heights Church in the youth department. As if working with adolescents in high school isn’t admirable enough, Shane is a Captian in the Army, set to deploy to Afghanistan in December 2010. Shane and Hannah are joining two in one through marriage in a few months, December 2009 and then she will see him off after celebrating their 1st Anniverary. Shane, thank you for loving the Lord, taking such an unfiltered and influencial role with the youth of Bowling Green and thank you most for serving alongside other men and women of the US Army.

The more I sit and think about Veteran’s Day, I am blown away. Utterly speechless. So humbled by God. By the military faithful.

Today, I am more aware of how wonderful my Grandfather was. We called him Pops.  As a World War II veteran, Pops packed his belongings and moved to the Phillipines to serve his country and protect the freedoms I so easily take for granted. Just a few months after his marriage to June Hubbs, their young life radically changed. I cannot fathom life outside of the protection of America. As I honor the most important Veteran in my life, I am reminded of a letter I wrote to Pops two months after his life ended on July 1, 2006. —

 

James Arlen Hubbs
June 10, 1926 – July 1, 2006

 

There are not words to express how much I miss you. Today, more than ever. I heard a song today, Brad Paisley’s “Raining You”, and your memories immediately rushed to the forefront of my mind. I get so sad hearing that song, yet I love hearing it because it reminds me of the good times. I’m sure you don’t know this unless you heard me out on the balcony that nite, but when I came to Knoxville for your 80th birthday, I sat on the back deck and listened to music for hours looking at the stars. I put that song on repeat for hours, just listening, taking in the moment. Now I look back, seeing that, at that point in time, sitting on your deck, you only had 21 more days left to live… I wish I was spending all my waking moments thinking of you, your life lessons, the conversations we had about faith, life, family, and careers. I wish I could hear your years of knowledge and insight one more time. A million times if I could. I can’t.

 

Pops.
You are the most spiritual man I know.
Your faith in our family held us together, even in the toughest times.
I am inspired by you everyday.
I think of you daily, wishing I could see you again.
No matter how much I took your stories for granted, I’d give anything to hear them again.

 

At the funeral, it became so mundane hugging and putting on a fake smile to each of the hundreds of people who came to honor you. Don’t get me wrong, I am so grateful to them that so many people came to celebrate your life. It was unmistakeably clear how wonderful you were and how much you meant to those who came to honor you. But honestly, I wanted them gone. I wanted everyone gone, except you. Even then, it didn’t hit me that you were gone. I’m not sure if it has to this day, but I will never forget the moment I came to my first, but not last, realization that I had lost the strongest, most loving man in my life… The funeral service was beginning, and I took one last walk by your casket. After holding back tears all afternoon, seeing the serviceman walk toward me to close the casket, I let my dam fall and the tears come streaming down my face. No doubt, the hardest I have ever cried in my life. The worst pain I had felt in my time.

 

Pops… I couldn’t tell you why I am writing this. Not for my friends to read and feel sorry for me or for strangers to read and think I am morbid and upset. I don’t know why I felt like writing this. I needed a way to get these emotions out, hoping that you’ll be hearing these words as I write them.

 

I love you and miss you terribly. I can’t wait to see you again. You have given me the drive and faith to live a better life, to strive harder to live eternally in Heaven, where I know you are waiting… Everyday, I wish to see you! Everyday, I want you back in my life. Everyday, I hope that you will be with Grandmama. She needs you. And I know you will never leave her. Keep her safe. I’ll do all I can to make sure she is okay, but I know you’ll always be there with her too.

I love you.
I miss you.
There’s not a day that goes by that I don’t think of you.

As you’d say… Buh-bye buddy.

Love,
Sweetie

 

 
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